Motherhood... Take 2
Happier Days!! Those surely are the ones when the boys are
away at my mom’s or either I am away on a trip without the kids!
Words can hardly express the extent to which I relish
those moments. Those are the precious few days of the year that keep me happy,
sane and ticking all year through.
Of course I am a mother and love my kids to the moon and
back, but they sure have turned my life upside down, into a circus… where they
are the ring masters and I am the lioness performing tricks under their whip! Just knowing there will be no routine, no
arguments and fights, no tantrums and dramas for the next couple of days is a
relief. Not screaming about sticky hands on the couch and spilt milk on the
floor is calming. Not seeing pencil shavings and paint on the floor feels super
clean. Not instructing about washing hands before meals and flushing after
peeing makes me feel like a normal intelligent human being! Taking a shower
without someone banging on the door is a pleasure… Just not hearing the word
Mamma five hundred times a day is relaxing!
As much as I love them, it is absolutely priceless to be able to sleep whenever I
want and not worry about the morning alarm. The delight of reading all day if I
please or spending an entire afternoon
in meaningful nothingness is
invaluable. The freedom to do a movie marathon, to step out when I please
without any planning and worrying, to do absolutely anything that I fancy at
any point of time in the day and not having to consider their routines, needs
and moods is something I treasure.
It’s wonderful to have the entire bed to ourselves and it is
an absolute treat to be the one who gets the good morning kiss instead of the
baby.
Very often, people question my motherly instincts and
feelings towards my boys, but honestly I doubt if these small little pleasures make me less
motherly than any other mother. The joy and sanity these little breaks bring into
my life is immeasurable. I look forward to the monthly weekends when my kids go
off to my mom’s and each year I diligently and meticulously plan and keenly await
the annual 10 day trip we take minus the kids.
I thoroughly enjoy the company of my boys. It’s a lot of fun
to play ball, run around the house, make puzzles, do origami, build castles or
play hide and seek. I regularly plan and look forward to movie nights and dinner
dates with the kids. The fun and frolic and chaos in the house and my life
every day is absolutely precious and it’s pure and sheer joy to be their
mother.
But, occasionally, I treasure my time too. It feels nice to
do my things and have my space from time to time. Sometimes all I want is the
absence of noise around me. Above all, I just love the rare leisure of doing or
saying nothing!
I so agree with you..... beautifully expressed ....oh you need time without kids to recharge your batteries and get some sanity back...
ReplyDeleteSanity and some sense of normalcy!
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